From time immemorial the wedding is one of the most
important moments of life. And you need some proper
preparation in order to be the wedding you have ever
dreamt of.
In the past and nowadays Bulgarian wedding consists
of two „cycles“; engagement and real wedding. Both in
engagement and wedding there is a lot of drama and especially
in the wedding there mingled symbolic, magic and literature
elements (drama, music, poetry and choreography). When
your relationships are no more a secret for the commons
for a while everyone impatiently keeps an eye on what
is going on. After that they ask: „When are you going
to marry?“
Then you yourself began to think on that. At the end
you receive a wedding proposal or you propose to the
beloved one.
The moment to inform the parents comes. You may simply
tell them: „Dear parents! You know that we love each
other for a long time and now we decided to get marry.“
You can choose the variant romantic dinner for two or
to gather the two families to discuss the upcoming event.
During the engagement the groom gives his beloved a
ring which she wears on her left hand.
The bridegroom must choose by themselves the first
witnesses if they have no family such or if the groom
has no godfather. The tradition ordains that the bridegroom
must carry sweet rakia, cake and a box of chocolates
to the godfather and a bouquet to the godmother. Together
they talk over about the date and place of the wedding.
The first witnesses are obliged to buy: veil and wedding
bouquet for the bride, ceremonial candles, glasses and
champagne, round loaf. Also: a decorated bottle of wine
and a bowl of honey for the ceremony in the church.
The traditional gift from the first witnesses is a dinner
set.
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